Life is not easy . . we reach stages in our lives when things happen which we simply do not understand, nor have answers for, which test our self-confidence or take hostage our self-esteem. We feel challenged and pinned up against a wall, immovable and often incapable of progress. When in these states, we often feel completely out of control, unworthy and stressed to a high level. It might be a personal problem with a close associate or loved one; it might be from health issues we seemingly cannot resolve to our own satisfaction; we might be beleaguered by conflicts in our work, our home life, our personal relationships or elsewhere; or perhaps we are just aging and feel uncertain how our lives will pan out, how our dreams will be realized.
Life is not easy, it demands our attention and perseverance to make the best choices, to examine our options and to be true to our own internal spiritual needs. We must live in tune with many varying factors for our lives to be sensical and for us to deem them successful in the end. When even one part of our life is out of tune, we notice a sour note played out in the way we appreciate things . . some of our joy is waning, our happiness is not guaranteed, we are more stressed and we struggle more against the currents of our daily endeavors. Even one choice made erroneously, against what we deem essential for the happiness and contentment of our spirits, can leave us burdened with troubles!
Knowing what makes you happy is key. First of all, knowing that only you can be responsible for your own happiness is even more essential in life! It is no one else’s job to make you happy, to cause your happiness, nor to decide what things in life will lead to your happiness. Only you, with your consult in God, can make those determinations! Learn to listen to the internal nudges and proddings which are your instincts. They are often the best way to heed the real desires of your heart, no one else need convince you of their viewpoint . . only your desires matter after all, it’s your life! Learn to trust your judgment as it is always the case that a wrong choice, or a choice which weakens your spirit, goes against God’s will or isn’t in your best interests will spike an instinctual call to make a different choice, or at the very least, to correct a poor prior choice!
We are our own best advocates . . we know what it is that we need, want and what is best for us. Learning to keep that in the forefront of our minds when making all decisions always assures that we will not make wrong decisions. It’s okay to say no, to not do what others ask, to be so concerned about the state of your own spirit, that not doing something is the way to go! Listen with a more alert heart to what makes you spirit content, that is what you should always do! It is true that you always know in your own “gut” what is right or wrong, it’s instinctual, you feel it!
The other way to conquer all your issues is to find a peaceful way to be calm when making decisions, when thinking and deliberating on something, and when you are pondering outcomes. I choose to seek God’s counsel, for I always think He is leading me in the best way possible, knowing the best course for me, and He is always with me wherever I go. Without my prayerful contemplation on everything throughout my day, I would be lost! I ask Him for His grace, His favor, His direction and His loving compassion through each part of my day, every day. I rely on Him, as He is my Shepherd. Faith allows me to make that most easy decision to trust in God for all things I need and all that I must do. It’s as simple as deciding that the way off the cliff each day is the way of faith! As for our struggles, each one of us has them and must overcome them throughout life. We haven’t exemptions from struggles. When I’ve been overwhelmed and clearly befuddled by mine, I find that the most obvious reminder that I need God for everything! I am incapable of doing and being anything without Him. I am literally a lost sheep without the voice of the Master.
Trusting in your Spirit’s communication, which comes through the instincts you sense, is the best way to know that you are keeping on the right path, making the right moves and following in God’s will for your life. Anything else, and you will feel it as a gnawing in your own gut! Pay attention, all the signals you need are there! Just listen to the active voice of the Spirit within you. It never steers you in the wrong direction. If you make a wrong turn, listen anew and heed the best way to make the situation work out for your behalf! It’s never wrong to turn it over to Him!